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By: What?

What? — Mon, 07 Nov 2011 05:20:48 +0000

Vonni… Um, I know you posted a years ago, but are you serious? I am a black girl with a college degree with two younger black brothers, and we have all dated outside our race. It doesn’t bother me in the least to see them with a white girl if they like her and she treats them well. My fiance is a white man. That is not because of some confused racist mindset I am in. We fell in love. My career path says that I will probably make more money than him, I’m not looking for a millionaire. I have dated black men before, it wasn’t because they were black that it didn’t work out.
…”yall really dont understand how it feels to be passed over like day old bread because of some b.s that is being put out there about my sisters…”… maybe you are not dating the right men. If they are saying your ‘Black Girl BS’ is the reason they dont like you anymore you should probably move and find some better educated men.

You say you don’t like seeing black men with white women… yet you have dated and had CHILDREN outside of your race. You should be ashamed of yourself for not holding yourself to the same standards that you have set. Tiger Woods is talented, he should be able to love and marry who he wants *(although he f***ed that marriage up hard, but I believe he would have done that no matter the lady)*

Dave Chappelle should be able to love who he wants. And so should you. I hope you find someone that will treat you right because I have a feeling you hadn’t at the time you made that post. I am of course making broad assumptions, but if you can… I can.

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By: Metafilter

Metafilter — Sat, 07 May 2011 02:54:40 +0000

Sorry, his wife may be Asian, but she is hardly beautiful.

My glorious sistahs:

The brothas want to start another race, let them. they want to airbrush us out of the picture, they want to put us down, they want to close up our wombs (no wedding, no womb).

Let them.

Keep your money in YOUR pocket and support what validates YOU.

If one of them gets fired, beat down by the police, white racists, etc. – stay home.

When their show comes to town, keep your money in YOUR pocket.

When one of them writes a book, don’t buy it, don’t read it, don’t visit the website.

Vote with your pocketbooks and feet.

‘Nuff said.

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By: sam

sam — Thu, 11 Nov 2010 05:02:03 +0000

it’s spelled with an “f” because the philippines was named after the spanish king, felipe or king phillip in english. the original (spanish) name of the country was filipinas, hence the term “filipina/o.”

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By: Flyguy

Flyguy — Mon, 30 Aug 2010 23:15:38 +0000

I understand the various points everyone is making but consider this… it is much easier to marry within your race for the family of both parties and for the kids when they are grown. It gives them a distinct idea of who they are and where they and their families come from. But I think that there is no problem with marrying outside of your race either. To be honest and frank, a good, smart loving woman is really hard to find. So if you find a woman that you love and has all the qualities you look for then why not marry her and start a family with her? Race shouldn’t be preventing you although it should be considered. The people saying african american women are loud and all that I think it depends on the family and where and how they were raised. That goes for all races. “O Mankind, We created you from a single (pair) of a male and a female and made you into nations and tribes, that you may know each other. Verily the most honored of you in the sight of God is he who is the most righteous of you” (Quran 49:13). No race is better than the other and no race is obligated to the other. You cant say that black men are supposed to marry black women. Thats nonsense, If that as the case there would only be one race. Dave Chapelle has stated that he is a muslim. So based on Islamic teachings he needed to look for a woman that is conservative, respectful, and that has class and morality NOT a club going, provocative, sneaky wife. And it seems like he’s found that. Only he can judge his own situation because from the outside you can paint it any way you want.

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By: vonni

vonni — Tue, 08 Jun 2010 16:41:31 +0000

I have to agree with some of what u pointed out……but i am going to say this……the reason it is bothersome when we (blk women) see a brother marry a woman of another race is because it kind of fuels the stereotype of “if it aint white, it aint right” lol…..see more of yall that say get over it are not blk……yall really dont understand how it feels to be passed over like day old bread because of some b.s that is being put out there about my sisters………as a blk female i know we are loud and we can be a lil outragous but yall have to understand where all this extends from…..lets do our history….willie lynch wrote a book about how to keep your slaves, slaves (so to say)….it has been put in place that a white man can come in and tear down the family unit of the blk community…..i,e, taken the men from the slave quarters and selling them……making the blk woman vulernable to certain circumstances…….now fast forward present day……we are still dealing with systematic slavery…..we have seen far too many times our blk men turning their backs on us….and going with that society deems as a better choice……..i,e tiger woods made it his business to marry a scandavian nanny instead of getting him a sister coming out of college with a business degree…that would have helped him build his future….hmm lol i found it funny that he chose her…..i heard it put best when a blk man said, “tiger dated down, he went and got a white babysitter as oppose to diana ross dated up…she got a white billionaire” lol…..i just think that in some cases of our blk men with a lil loot they have been told this is what u should do……now i dont know daves situation, he was living out here in dc where i am now so he might have just got fed up with “these sisters” around here and said he wanted something different…..i cant knock him…but not to be funny he made a stereotypic move………but what i find even more funny is how brothers get upset when we jump out there and get a white man…..i have dated hispanic ( my sons father), white, mixed and so forth and i find men to be lovely……if i could find a fine ass asain dude that was interested in me i would try him too…but no matter what i always come back to my brothers………lol it all depends on what u want and what u are willing to try…..i dont really like seeing a brother with a white woman but hey i cant do anything about it……..to each is own! if u like it i love it lol

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By: EVELINA RAE

EVELINA RAE — Wed, 26 May 2010 14:05:33 +0000

PLEASE GET HELP REAL QUICK PYSCHO…IT’S MUCH NEEDED…THAT IS A TERRIBLE COMMENT IN EVERY WAY, SHAPE AND FORM. YOU MAY HATE BLACK MEN (OBVIOUS) BUT DON’T YOU EVER TAKE ANY [STUFF] OUT ON YOUNG INNOCENT BABIES AND CHILDREN, THEY HAVE NO CHOICE ON THE SUBJECT…YOU’RE BORN INTO A RACE AND IT WILL NEVER CHANGE. ‘CAUSE IF THEY COULD CHOOSE THEIR RACE WE ONLY HOPE THEY CHOOSE THE HUMAN RACE, NO SPECIFICS. WE ONLY HOPE THEY’RE PROUD NO MATTER WHAT THEY “ARE” AND JUST CHOOSE TO LIVE. IF A FETUS COULD CHOOSE A PARENT FOR DAMN SURE IT WOULDN’T BE YOU, EVER!!!! DAMN FOOL A** BARBARA. SEEK GOD, IMMEDIATELY!

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By: blackman

blackman — Wed, 26 May 2010 12:46:31 +0000

THESE KIDS ARE NOT BLACK! THEY ARE MIXED!STOP SAYING MIXED KIDS ARE BLACK1

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By: otomian god

otomian god — Thu, 15 Apr 2010 10:11:10 +0000

I am mixed of 4 different races. My mother is black and cherokee (my dad is mexican and otomian) I look either hispanic or black depending on the person… it never ends, but I am mixed. Some people think it is easier being Light Skinned than most blacks but for me that is a major problem. there is inner-family prejudice… even with peers there is separation. You as a mixed person have more to prove that you are associated with your particular race.

I seen a comment about blacks not suffering from all of the other crisis such as Holocaust, and participate and contributing from losses… it is because in those events Blacks were segregated from society or made slaves and not allowed to participate in combat after the Civil War (they were not to be trusted)

also I disagree with a Black man not getting love and attention from black women. there is ample attention but like myself it just seems that a mutual attraction and understanding occur when a woman of another race or lighter skin involves herself. Black men and women have so much in common i believe is the reason black men tend to look for women in other races.

i dont think this because im with a hispanic girl which is in my race group but, i believe that black men through social evolution look to other women because Blacks went through a revolution and with much integration in such few time… blacks find too much in common with each other. as if they get bored too easily. stubbornness, misunderstanding, and lack of attraction lead men on a different path. BUT MEN IN GENERAL are like this… when women are stubborn or become too strong in a relationship, men look for someone much opposite, a woman who is going to be loyal and obedient to her man. that’s probably when race is the issue, because men look at a big picture and try to hypothesize the perfect match.

but if dave chappelle is still with him womn and married with 2 children this means something is working out and race may or may not be an issue between them but somewhat of a catalyst in initiating their union. peace.

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By: Lionel Y.

Lionel Y. — Sun, 28 Feb 2010 04:42:54 +0000

hard to see where you’re going with this. but the only thing I can, I’m african and from an african perspective, I don’t see what’s wrong in black men marrying women from other races. it will matter if you want it to matter.
when you refer to the fact that mariah carey, kimora lee etc… want people to know they are half black-half white/asian, let me tell you that this is something that’s important for them. because they don’t want to be seen as white or anything else, they want to show diversity. they are the incarnation of diversity. these people spend their youth trying to find their place. in a country like america where race matter (it does not as much outside as it does in the US) if the world was filled with more mixed people there wouldn’t be as much racism as there is or there was in the past.

also what’s is the issue with black men and black women.
I mean I don’t get it, what’s the point in blindly dating inside your so called race? love has no color. i have been dating a mixed girl (half white-half black) I could have gone white, or black does not matter. love does!

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