Comments on: SOLANGE KNOWLES GIVES YOUNG TEENAGE MOTHERS ADVICE

By: MS.KEEDIE

MS.KEEDIE — Sat, 31 Oct 2009 03:56:57 +0000

MOTHERHOOD IS A SPECIAL BLESSING THERE’S NOTHING LIKE THE LOOK IN UR BABY’S EYE’S AND BLAH BLAH BLAH!!! I WAS A TEEN MOTHER, HAD A BABY AT 16 AND AINT NOTHING GLORIOUS ABOUT IT! IT TOOK ME 7 YEARS AND ALOT OF GROWNING UP TO DO TO HAVE ANOTHER 1. I CAN SAY MY DAUGHTER BROUGHT ME TRU LUV AND MATURITY I EXCEPTED CUZ IT WAS MY SHAWTY BUT I WAS STILL A SHAWTY. MY BABY DADDY WASNT WIT ME AND MANY NIGHTS I CRIED WHY ME. MONEY THAT I SPENT ON ME WENT ALL TO MY BABY!!!BUT I STUCK IN THERE GRADUATED WIT HONORS AND WENT TO COLLEGE…MY BABY WAS MY INSPIRATION BUT TOO MANY OTHER FEMALES LET IT BE THEY DOWN FALL. YA GIRL SOUND GUD FOR THA CAMERAS BUT AT NIGHT WHEN SHE LAY DOWN AND ITS JUST HER AND HER THOUGHTS…..SHE KNO!!!

By: hope

hope — Tue, 14 Jul 2009 09:57:51 +0000

having a child is a life changing experience and should not be encouraged in teenagers. However if it happens…..

By: renee

renee — Wed, 13 May 2009 15:20:09 +0000

I don’t think she was encouraging teenage pregnancy but telling those who are young and already have children to make the best out the situation.

By: nicole

nicole — Thu, 02 Apr 2009 18:35:43 +0000

i think that solange wat eva she shuld jus take a min and think wat she is say n also i am a teeen and i am not ready for a child im still one my self and how can u bascially say it dosent matter the age as long asa u have confidence see her deal is wich i dont know for sure wat goes on in her house hold but she has money and the support that i know of she is a celebrituy. it takes more3 than love to raise a baby if u have love u can make it along way but u need moarl support u need trust u need mioney u need the courage not the damn confiendnce. she can say that speaking on her behalf but on others u have to do wat u feel is best the best thing to prevent it is just wait im 17 n imwait n to the time is right ….. so dnt dwn her n dnt up her jus let her no thanks 4 the opipion

By: Nicole

Nicole — Tue, 08 Jul 2008 01:57:14 +0000

I personally think that Solange is being a bit unrealistic about having a child at a young age. Am I saying that she and other young moms are wrong for having their babie, no. Children are a blessing, however what can an average 15 or 16 year old child have to offer to another child. Unless your family is wealthy, how does a teenager have time to go to school, work, take care of the baby, and then have time for themselves? I have friends with two kids and they haven’t even reach 20 yet. I see them struggling with minimun wage jobs, unable to pay rent, living in one room with two babies. My advice to young girls is to wait it out. You have the rest of your life to fall in love, get pregnant, the whole nine.

By: kim

kim — Mon, 09 Jun 2008 11:00:27 +0000

any young girls can listen to her advice if you want to. i wouldnt listen to any rich person talking about their life’s experiences. it just doesnt apply to the rest of the world. having a baby at a young age is a terrible thing and extremely difficult to bounce back from, especially financially

By: BRITTANY AKA D AREALEST

BRITTANY AKA D AREALEST — Mon, 02 Jun 2008 18:54:14 +0000

I THINK ITS ALL GOOD SOLANGE IS TRYING TO BE INSPIRING HOWEVER SHE LOKS DUMB AS HELL. SHE RUSHED INTO HER MARRIAGE AND RUSHED INTO MOTHERHOOD SOMETHING SHE NOT TELLING YOUNG TEENAGERS THAT ISNT A WISE THING TO DO. IMA TEENAGER MYSELF AND I REALLY AM NOT READY FOR CHILDREN MOST FEMALES HAVE CHILDREN BECAUSE THEY WANT TO PLAY THE “WIFEY ME AND MY MAN GOT A FAMILY” ROLE BUT AT THE END OF THE DAY IT’S A WHOLE LOT MORE THAN THAT. pLUS SOLANGE GOT MORE MONEY THAN MOST YOUNG TEENAGERS. i THINK FEMALES NEED TO FOCUS ON THEMSELVES FIRST AND FOR MOST THAN WHEN THEY ARE READY TO BRING AONTHER LIFE INVOLVED THAN DO WHAT THEY DO. AND AS MUCH AS SOLANGE CLAIMS SHE’S HAPPY THIS THAT N THE THIRD I KNOW DAMN WELL…NOT SAYING SHE REGRET HER SEED BUT I KNOW IF SHE CAN CHANGE BACK THE HANDS OF TIME CERTAIN THINGS WOULDNT OF HAPPEN BUT THAN AGAIN IT DEPENDS ON WHAT TYPE OF FEMALE SHE IS.

By: Francey

Francey — Wed, 28 May 2008 13:44:37 +0000

Sharmaine … you need shut up and Listen to Solange Speak!!! …. you Uneducated self centered B***!!! … Yea I said it and wath

By: taziyana

taziyana — Fri, 18 Apr 2008 14:34:05 +0000

it may b hard …im not saying that it is going 2 b easy….but u do have 2 give up alot of things but the out come is ur beautiful baby….

By: Lakeisha

Lakeisha — Fri, 18 Apr 2008 13:27:57 +0000

I think she’s right. It doesn’t matter what age you have one. As long as you’re confident,you can make it.