Comments on: ERYKAH BADU TALKS ABOUT THE FATHERS OF HER KIDS(Andre 3000 and The D.O.C)

By: Tonya

Tonya — Mon, 21 Sep 2009 23:54:05 +0000

Women and men just need to be smart about the things they say and do in life…we all fall short in some areas..learn from them and move on…having kids with different fathers, is sometimes hard on the kids…i wouldn’t want children to think this is cool…we as parents and adults should be setting the example for our young ones to follow..so you need to ask your self is this what we want for our kids? I don’t…looking for the right man stop having kids til you are married.

By: La Tasha Glenn

La Tasha Glenn — Fri, 11 Sep 2009 13:51:40 +0000

I actually respect Erkay. I am a single mother of 3 with 3 three different children fathers. I respect that woman. She was strong enough to carry through with it despite what anyone would say.

Those are her children at the end of the day. She can have as many babies as she pleases. She has an occupation and a big heart. Lauryn Hill has 5 children with 1 childs father, who never married her. Does that make her better ? Ans: no.

So please you can’t elaborate on anyones life if you don’t know them. If she was not independently doing anything for herself it would be a different situation.

She has been blessed to have children and she has them. Her children will last forever not the relationships. Even if one of them did marry her.

I’m happy she strong enough to not give a f@#k about anything any of ya’ll say.

By: Kierra Mc

Kierra Mc — Thu, 06 Aug 2009 22:35:30 +0000

Kim, how is she ghetto??? she is taking care of kids, is civil with their fathers, and is keeping both of them involved in her childrens’ lives. I don’t see what’s ghetto about it.

By: Miss Thing

Miss Thing — Wed, 08 Jul 2009 06:10:20 +0000

i think that everybody on this page has too many opinions on what other people should do with there life. black, white, blue, yellow, or red, who give a hoot. Get your shit straight first, im pretty sure everybody on this site has something going on that that other doesn’t agree about so don’t pass judgment.

By: T

Sun, 05 Jul 2009 14:23:38 +0000

I guess you can call it ghetto and there for black but it is a problem that happens all across the racial spectrum.

I know that marriage is supposed to give kids a sense of stability but lets face it, her situation is pretty ideal because the men in her lives are real dads. Call it ghetto if you want but this situation is far beter than kids born into a terrible or forced marriage or kids born into a marriage that leads to a divorce and again parents who don’t pay them any attention.

Just because white folks are more likely to make a legit go of it for a few years doesn’t change the fact that they still end up with multiple baby mamas and daddys due to divorce.

We all know what the ideal is but we also know that life does not always end up the way you thought it would. For all of those saying she is ghetto I’m pretty sure she just got “caught” doing what you have done at least once or twice in your life. Judge not lest ye be judged.

By: Ms. Strawwberry

Ms. Strawwberry — Tue, 02 Jun 2009 23:35:15 +0000

What is right, and what is wrong? The way Erykah may have chosen to live her life, is totally her choice, and no one else! That’s like saying college is for every, when we all know each and every person has their own destiny to fulfill. Getting married first, and then having children is what society has impacted on us, such as teaching us it is legal to smoke cigarettes, but it is totally wrong and illegal for us to smoke drugs, or the choice to have an abortion. People, we are not living in the 1920’s anymore and times, morals and attitudes have changed right along with everything around us. Try to think out of the box, and stop bashing others, because she is a strong individual who chose to stand out and do things differently, regardless of opinionated statements from shallow fools that will never fade due to idiots.

By: Ms. Strawwberry

Ms. Strawwberry — Tue, 02 Jun 2009 23:34:04 +0000

By: hiphopbarbie

hiphopbarbie — Tue, 07 Apr 2009 02:21:04 +0000

Why is everyone attacking her? I mean she is not the first one to have children out of wed-lock. Goldie Hahn has a child out of wed- lock and so does her daughter(Kate Hudson) and they all live happy lives. Also lots of other non famous women have children out of wed-lock. I personally belive that there is nothing wrong with being a baby momma beside Baby mommas always come first! I would rather be baby mother than to have a failed marriage where the kids then go crazy from living iin a broken home. What if she was married ad then divorced? I bet you would still have negative things to say about her… and its not like she’s having all these kids and the fathers aren’t involved like many other cases.E-Badu takes care of her kids and thier fathers do also. I bet you wont hear about her kids in the news getting drunk and hooked on drugs like other children of celebs.Until you live a day in her life you shouldn’t judge her… She is a powerful BLACK Woman and I respect her fully no matter how many kids she has or will have.

By: lilkunta

lilkunta — Mon, 30 Mar 2009 05:36:31 +0000

The rap group is spelled outKast not outcast.
BCK you’re AfrAm u should know that! OK has been out since 92 afterall.

By: EJ

EJ — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 21:13:44 +0000

Wow… would it make a difference if she was married to both men… No, because today E_Badu would still be a baby mama of two(2)… Let’s just pray that she is a great mother and both fathers are active and loving to their children and E-Badu… My point is; Just because you get married and have children does not guarantee that you will not be a baby mama!!!! However, I still believe in marriage first… but not everything happens the way we want, and so with that said… who are we to judge that woman?! Lets Walk with God and look after his Children, not punish his children with your words… Love us