Comments on: QUINCY BROWN’S LETTER TO HIS FATHERS: AL B SURE AND P DIDDY

By: Don Alfonso Cabernet Sauvignon

Don Alfonso Cabernet Sauvignon — Tue, 07 Feb 2012 07:33:31 +0000

You actually make it seem so easy with your presentation but I find this topic to be really something which I think I would never understand. It seems too complicated and very broad for me. I’m looking forward for your next post, I will try to get the hang of it! Cheers, Don Alfonso Cabernet Sauvignon

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By: Mimi

Mimi — Thu, 18 Mar 2010 07:51:29 +0000

Everything happened for a good reason…I’m going through a lot…for 13 yrs now!!! I was surfing in the web and saw by …”coincidenc” (?) Quincy’s letter..
My ex husband left me and our son when he was born in Paris just for my ex to continue his adventurous life and stay free…But it was a challenge to divorce a french white man in Paris, alone, winning my case, getting all the support and help from people there, beeing able by the Grace of Our Lord to come to the US, work, fight and raise my son ALONE, without NO help from his father who became and still is sooo angry to see that I was and still am able to make it without him. Of course I did as many women do, tried to take my revenge by giving him back every single “kick” he was giving me, to make him pay the pain and suffering he gave me.. I didn’t know at that time that I was only doing the same bad things than him, looking just like him, and hurting our own son, just to take revenge. Years later, I understood that the BATTLE IS FOR THE LORD, I started puting my trust and patience to God and left my ex continue to fight alone and continue to be angry in front of a situation he couldn’t control: my joy and happiness with my son, alone here in the US. After 13 yrs, I’m still asking the Lord to help me to forgive him, but my ex still continue his liars, violation of court order, and the worst, KIDNAPPING MY SON in my own country where he resides since our divorce. For that, I did send him to jail in Africa, despite all the money he has there to protect himself, paying people, authorities (yes…), IN MY OWN COUNTRY…
I got my son back, did recive the support of the US government beeing now a US Citizen, did modify the judgement regarding his visitations rights. Of course my ex hates me even more now, than before, using his money to pay lawyers and ask me to appear to court to modify our divorce judgement and take my son away from me, while he NEVER did anything for him, NOTHING. I’ m still fighting, my son is hurt, it’s painful, so much hate and anger!!!
I do understand Quincy’s cry, same cry than my son, 13yrs now, same letter he wrote to him last week, at his 13th bday…
Why some fathers are sooo mean , why couldn’t they understand that hurting the mothers means hurting the child? Why put the child in the middle of this mess?
May the Lord protect all the kids who are in the middle of such anger, sadness, sorrow…And help us, mothers, to be strong enough to forgive, move on, and strenght to do the right thing, wothout hurting our kids….Amen. May the Lord Bless you Quincy to be strong enough to forgive and move on in your life, you deserve it and you cannot pay nor receive the consequences of your father’s mystakes…

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By: DancerYeah

DancerYeah — Tue, 23 Feb 2010 18:01:50 +0000

I remember when I first heard about this letter. Quincy had to get it out, and he did. He is a great young man…AND SEAN DOES TAKE CARE OF CHANCE…whenever he’s down in Atlanta..please believe babygirl is with her dad…

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By: Princess

Princess — Thu, 28 Jan 2010 20:32:04 +0000

Yall missing the damn point! This young man has poured his heart out about not having his father there. Diddy is in Chance’s life its just that Kim doesn’t support it so he has to see her when the twins and Christian are not around. Quincy love your letter keep on going.

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By: Precious 4512

Precious 4512 — Thu, 28 Jan 2010 03:16:38 +0000

I feel the same way ,something is really wrong with this letter,and i feel his mom will go to her grave hurt if she don’t come out and really talk to her boy,uh look how Diddy treats the rest of his kids,you only see one besides Quincy,when you look at.Diddy you see somethimg not right,Quincy did no write that letter by himself.Qunicey looks like he’ll do anything to please Diddy.
Becareful Diddy you don’t get one of those letter’s from one of your other kids that you don’t pay attention to.

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By: SAMITRIA BESS

SAMITRIA BESS — Tue, 04 Aug 2009 10:46:38 +0000

man QUINCY IS SOOO…FREAKIN FINE BOII….WEN I GET OLDER IMA COME AND SEE HIM WERE EVER HE IS HE’S JUST SOOO…FINE AND LET ME NOT FORGET P DIDDY IS TOO….OMG FREAKIN G

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By: LISA

LISA — Tue, 21 Jul 2009 15:36:32 +0000

I can’t believe what pain he’s been through. Not only is he physically attractive but he is such a emotional person who isn’t scared to show his feelings. I can’t imagine what its like to know your father exists but most likely doesn’t give a damn about you. Growing up in the spotlight is difficult and worse when people know about your secrets but he’s not a kid anymore, he’s all man. I look up to him..

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By: Cher

Cher — Wed, 27 May 2009 04:46:54 +0000

Hello Quincy,

I read your letter to your father and I must applaud you on getting your feelings down on paper for your father to get an insight into how his irresponsibility has made you feel. I must say that even though your father was not there for you, airing your thoughts to him for the public to see was wrong. You and your mother should have asked for a private meeting with him and expressed your thoughts with him. I, too, am a mother of a now 18 year old high school graduate whose biological father was never there for him. My son, did not let this discourage him, deter him from his goals, or made him feel unvalidated. I just hope that your mother and I share the same philosophy as far as our children stands and that is to make sure you have all your necessities provided in a way that you will always think for yourself. I do hope that just because your siblings father, who is very well off financially, did not swell your head. I state this to say just because you have the materialistic things being provided for you, for example the lavish parties, expensive cars, all the designer clothes, you do not let this cloud your judgment. There are so many important things you need to worry about and having nice things is not the most important, it helps, but should not be your first priority. I understand that you are almost a man who should have some type of educational goals ahead of your. Making the money is always a young, black, male first worry but getting your education can always bring you many more opportunities.

Do not let your biological father being absent deter you, strive to be the man that he chose not to be for you. Strive to be that young man, that makes his mother overjoyed by your own accomplishments and not what has been handed to you. You show signs of having a great future just in having the courage to address this issue but do not ever let on man’s downfall be at left at your starting point for you to pick and carry. Your biological paternal parent will one day see what he has missed all these years. His lost. Continue to make your mother proud.

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By: Truth!

Truth! — Sun, 03 May 2009 00:13:28 +0000

Char,

you are obviously a woman who is blinded by the wolf’s charm.
just because a man can sing does not make him a father. this man’s own flesh and blood has called him out for his bs. this is just the beginning of bad karma for Al. He is a deadbeat with his kids, his heart and his soul. his soul is dead. who could support a record from a deadbeat father and a human being (if you read quincy’s current letter his dad has still not reached out to him). his dad is too busy trying to make a comeback at his 40yr old tired self. he has no time to be a father and he does not care. i for one am glad quincy is far away from Al. It will save him years of therapy.

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By: Char

Char — Sat, 02 May 2009 15:54:02 +0000

All I can say is wow, I was hanging with Al B Sure just last night in Philly and I will be seeing him perform tonight, he is and has always been a very nice guy and the relationship with his son is not for us to judge, I am saddened to know that Quincy feels the way that he does and I know that he must hurt especially being a mirror image of his father I know people must talk to him about father a lot, but before we start accusing Big Al of being a deadbeat father we must also keep in mind that sometimes when a mother has a new life with an established man that is providing all of her creature comforts, mothers sometimes draw a wedge between fathers and sons because a bit of their own selfishness gets in the way and to not upset the new man or create a smaller purse they allow the new established man to assume the fatherly duties, and not allowing the biological to interfere with their newly, happily very comfortable home. I am not making any excuses for men that do not take an active part in the rearing of their children especially their boys, I am simply stating that often times women make it hard for a father to be involved in their children’s lives, especially if the new man is wealthy.

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