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CANDIDS WITH SINGER MASHONDA AND HER SON

Wednesday, Sep 30 , 2009 11:03:am by admin FILED UNDER Singers and their Kids

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One thing is for sure: Singer Mashonda adores her little boy Kasseem Jr,2, with whom she had with Producer/ rapper Swizz Beatz.

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Mashonda is no longer with her husband Swizz Beatz though they are still married. Mashonda recently wrote an open letter to a certain famous singer and accused the singer of “destroying” her marriage and hence her family.

“This is not a publicity stunt, I dont have a record coming out. I just need to close this chapter in my life and that means confronting our issues. There is a small child involved. His dad loves him to death and he wants to spend more time with him but hes afraid because he knows we don’t have a relationship. This is my main concern. My son NEEDS his dad and I NEED to be comfortable with you. For him!”

Read the entire letter to find out which singer Mashonda is referring to

BCK Says: Please do not leave any negative comments and do not mention any other names other than the ones that have been mentioned in this post. Thanks! Isn’t Kasseem a cutie?:)

Second Photo in post courtesy of Derek Blanks

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68 Comments to “CANDIDS WITH SINGER MASHONDA AND HER SON”

  • cathy b September 30, 2009 at 11:11 am

    BEAUTIFUL!!! if he don’t look just like his dad WOW!! he is so adorable!!!!

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  • Blessed September 30, 2009 at 11:18 am

    Way to go Mashonda for being the bigger person in this mess! Sometimes you have to let go and let God have his way. Turn all your stumbling blocks into stepping stones. God has something great in store for you. Encourage yourself. Leave the rest up to our father in heaven.

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    • tanisha September 30, 2009 at 11:47 am

      bigger person? have you read her open letter to AK?? that she has posted over and over until she gets a response. she has never been the bigger person in this situation. she should let go and let God because she is making a fool out of herself

      imo, i highly doubt AK stole her man. i think he just said this isnt working and starter up with AK since they seperated. of course this is just my opinion.

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      • Blessed September 30, 2009 at 2:56 pm

        If the letter is the one that BCK has posted then I read it. And Yes she is being a bigger person because instead of violence she is trying to resolve this respectfully. Despite the fact her husband is having an affair. Those vows mean a lot in the eyesight of God. He is the ultimate Judge! Not me, not you, Mashonda or anyone else for that matter. So sometimes you have to step back and let God do the rest! Regardless as to how it makes you look.

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      • dumbresponses October 1, 2009 at 12:35 am

        a stupid opinion

        check yo damn facts…..dates, etc

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  • LisaLisa September 30, 2009 at 11:22 am

    I totally agree with MaShonda. AK should have been a better woman and told Swiss Beats “hey, I am attracted to you too, but you are married and until you handle your Business, I can’t be with you.” We women need to stick together and make these men be men. If not then they will never have to be accountable for anything they do! He was wrong too but with out AK the affair would have never happend!

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    • CNBB September 30, 2009 at 11:34 am

      i agree with you kudos…

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    • tanisha September 30, 2009 at 11:50 am

      what if they were already seperated at the time. living in seperate residences. if she wanted it to work out and made attempts to get him to come back home and he didnt, would AK still be guilty of stealing her husband when he was already gone?

      the only reason we are siding with this woman is because she is putting her side in the streets. they havent said a word.

      like i said between her side and his side lies the truth. and one day it will come out

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      • Tanya September 30, 2009 at 12:57 pm

        I dont think it matters if they were separated… they were still married. To alleviate some of the issues and bad karma,they should have waited until he was divorced. I hope AK knows that what goes around damn sure comes back around.

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        • xtrathk February 4, 2010 at 2:34 pm

          I agree with Tanya. What goes around comes around and the way she gets him is the same way she will lose him. Watch out Ak!

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    • Aria81 October 1, 2009 at 7:53 am

      I have heard statements like yours over and over. The affair wouldn’t have happen if it wasn’t for AK. That is not necessarily true. If a man has decided to move on that is just what he is going to do. If it wasn’t AK it would have been some other women. So that makes him solely responsible because it was him that had an obligation to respect and honor his wife. No other woman ever made that promise to her. Please don’t get me wrong I don’t agree in no way, shape or form with someone being in a relationship with a married individual but I am well aware that things happen. I know plenty of people that have entered into relationships while separated or what have you. Yes is does make for a messy situation but it is what it is. For Mashonda to go after the woman while stating that she is in a good place with her husband makes no sense to me. He created this situation so if you are cool with him than the other woman shouldn’t matter. A woman can approach your husband but it is completely up to him if he chooses to respond to her advances. Publically addressing the woman two years into the situation does not read I’ve moved on and I’m at peace with the situation. It reads I’m still bitter that you got my man and I just can’t get past it.

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    • ELENA December 29, 2009 at 12:41 am

      SINCE NONE OF US KNOW THE REAL STORY….IT’S EASY TO POINT THE FINGER AT AK AND ACCUSE HER OF BREAKING UP THEIR MARRIAGE. I JUST DON’T BELEIVE THAT BASED ON THE MEDIA HYPE ANYONE SHOULD RUSH TO JUDGEMENT. ON A DIFFERENT NOTE MASHONDA IS BEAUTIFUL AND SO IS THEIR SON……..IF THINGS DIDN’T WORK OUT BETWEEN THE TWO OF THEM THAT’S LIFE……..SOMETIMES PPL JUST DON’T NEED TO STAY TOGETHER. HOWEVER, IF AK DID SABOTAGE THIS MARRIAGE IN ANY WAY THEN WHAT GOES AROUND ALWAYS HAS A WAY COMING RIGHT BACK AROUND.LOL

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  • dashayna September 30, 2009 at 11:29 am

    gosh that is such a sweet cute looking boy!!!

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  • Raven September 30, 2009 at 11:47 am

    He is sooo cute! So sad [some woman] broke them up. I used to like her a lot!

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  • Awwe How Cute « Media Outrage September 30, 2009 at 11:49 am

    [...] Scorned soon-to-be-ex-wife of Swizz Beatz, Mashonda recently went in hard at Alicia Keys and her home wrecking ways.  Here Mashonda is pictured with her little bundle of joy Kaseem Jr.  More cuteness awaits when you click here. [...]

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  • Kai September 30, 2009 at 11:59 am

    THAT LITTLE BOY IS SO CUTE….SHE LOOKS BEAUTIFUL

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  • Leo September 30, 2009 at 12:16 pm

    I will adhere to BCK’s request for no negativity and say that both mother and son are beautiful people. As for the other parties – life will sort them out.

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  • TC September 30, 2009 at 12:28 pm

    Stop blaming others for the demise of your relationship. Hold him responsible, because he is the only one that promised you anything. As hurtful as the situation is, you cannot hold anyone else accountable for what happens in your relationship.

    You don’t have to speak too her or know the other woman. You don’t have to be comfortable with her. It’s not your relationship to have with her.

    The only relationship you have now is with the father of your child. Co-parent and quit making it about you.

    She doen’t owe you anything, esp not a conversation.
    It is an unfortunate situation, but not uncommon.

    I am a married mother and I think this whole thing is immature at best.If my husband were to leave me for another, that woman owes me nothing. She did not break my home, he did. I don’t need to know her in order to be comfortable and coparent my children with my husband, former or otherwise.

    Quit trying to throw her under the bus.

    Move on.

    She was wrong, we get it.

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    • aries September 30, 2009 at 1:25 pm

      I agree with you 110% most woman like to blame the other woman when things do not work out in the marriage. Instead of taking responsibility for the action that cause the problems in the marriage. AK did not commit to mashonda swizz did she should have twitter him not her. She made her self look bad when she posted her private feelings on twitter.

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    • tina September 30, 2009 at 2:25 pm

      I agree completely with you TC. She was wrong and so was he.

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    • Teri September 30, 2009 at 4:40 pm

      I’ve been saying this over and over and over on blogs and to other women. Quit blaming the other woman. He’s the one in the relationship. He’s the one who took the vow and stood before God, man, whomever and made a pledge to his wife. I’m so sick of women calling other woman out. Call the man out. So many women want to fight the other woman like that’s really going to accomplish something and then invite the cheater back into her bed. Trust, he’ll do it again because some women put up with such foolishness and don’t hold their men accountable for his cheating ways.

      However, TC, I do believe it would be wise to have a cordial relationship with my ex’s spouse IF we had children. This woman is going to be in my child’s life and because me and my ex have a child, we will always be in each other’s lives so personally I would want to get along with his current spouse. If we had a legitimate break up, why would I have any anomosity toward the other woman? It’s much better for the children in my opinion. I’m not saying we’d have to be friends, but realistically we will be indirectly involved in each other’s life if my child visits my ex’s house regularly.

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    • UGOGURL!!! October 1, 2009 at 5:46 am

      KUDOS!! put the blame where it really belongs…HUSBAND AND WIFE!!

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    • tasha October 31, 2009 at 1:41 am

      any retard that believes that is an idiot. you mean to tell me if ur son is your heart and you love him and just so happen to have a husband who is a celebrity but so irresponsible that he had an affair(do your research theres pics of them kissing in 08 when him and wifey were still out about and together) with someone in the public eye instead of first handling the seperation with wifey, you think you wouldnt want to atleast be civil with the other woman. i mean though people say its his fault not hers thats stupid. so if im your mom and someone kill you are they not equally wrong for helping. he was wrong but shes equally wrong for going along with it. so maybe shonda figures she didnt respect my marriage but she better respect my son.

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    • tasha October 31, 2009 at 2:02 am

      everybody quoting God. so they are both at fault if you pay attention. the bible said thou shall not commit adultery(what swizz did) it also says thou shall not covet thy neighbors wife/husband(what keys did). also y dont ya’ll realize she has to say she cool with him if you do your research you’d know the court seperation agreement states she cannot speak badly about him or put him out there that is defaming his character. she didnt even say keys name so noone can say she coming at her neck. plus they did have an affair look it up, in 2008 pic leaked of swizz and keys kissing before the demise of the marriage. at that time he was denying it. so since keys didnt respect her marriage maybe she wants to see to it keys atleast repects her son. theres nothing wrong with being civil with the other woman in some cases it makes the other woman treat your child with respect.

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  • K September 30, 2009 at 12:31 pm

    If this is true, I am so disappointed in [AK]. No self-respecting woman would ever engage in an affair with a married man no matter who is he.

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  • Judd September 30, 2009 at 12:47 pm

    He does look like his father.. Sad that his father could not be faithful to her, they would have made a nice lookin family..

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  • Judd September 30, 2009 at 12:47 pm

    He does look like his father.. Sad that his father could not be faithful to her, they would have made a nice lookin family..

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  • BB September 30, 2009 at 1:06 pm

    There seems to be little modesty or discretion in this day post Jerry Springer, reality tv, and an internet gone wild.

    I am not for policing the internet, I love the blog site like BCK and being able to get info in a flash, & support free speech (to a degree)…

    But on the downside, people air too much dirty laundry, total no-body’s who deserve to stay that way gain overnight fame, the out of control paparazzi have yet another means to exploit, and complete idiots get a platform where they never had one b’4…I could go on

    Regarding Mashonda and her post,other than the fact that I find it distasteful to air so much dirty laundry on a public blog, I do say that if the other woman was a friend/aquaintance it is not out of place for her to have confronted (not assaulted mind you) her. Ultimately the husband is to blame, not the mistress though I do think it sad when women knowingly get into intimate relationships with married men. I know it can be tempting, but I always try to think of the golden rule first—would I want this done to me? and it is not alwyas necessarily to act on everything that pops in ones mind.

    If that was the case, I’d be in jail–lol.

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  • LovelyMe~Genesis1:27 September 30, 2009 at 1:28 pm

    Mashonda is hurting and grieving over the loss of her husband & marriage. No one can say when she should be healed. Grief runs a different course for different people. It is intense enough to be in love with someone but then to bear their child can further intensify emotions. I feel sad for her experiencing such a hurt. I’m sure she went into the marriage with the ‘together forever’, “for better or for worse”, “forsake all others..” mindset but he didn’t adhere to it and now he’s with another woman who he initially lied about being with. It’s devastating and difficult to let go.
    It seems that she feels if only Alicia Keys wasn’t in the picture she and Swiss Beats would be together living happily-ever-after when the truth is that if it wasn’t Alicia then it’d be someone else.
    I am hoping that Mashonda gets to a point where she can be done with it but, for now I understand why she’s in such pain. I wish her well.

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  • neenee September 30, 2009 at 1:39 pm

    she can do better cos no offence but her husband is really skinny n kinda looks [insult omitted]
    shes pretty n her boy is cute.

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  • Toni September 30, 2009 at 2:09 pm

    He looks just like his dad!

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  • Shanice September 30, 2009 at 3:05 pm

    Swizz is to blame and so is [Ak]Maybe more-so [Ak] for caving to his advances. “Superwoman” and “Karma”, HA!

    The little boy is cute. I luv his big ears. I have a nephew with big ears, he gets them from my brother, and I think they’re the cutest things.
    Mashonda is a very pretty lady. Maybe one day, she’ll find another man that has eyes and love for her and her only.

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  • Lisette September 30, 2009 at 4:25 pm

    He’s a cute and Mashonda is pretty. No comment on her love triangle.

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  • DEE September 30, 2009 at 4:43 pm

    I am a women who’s husband strayed and not once did I blame the other women. I was upset at her for knowingly getting into a relationship with a married man, but the blame was all for my husband. He was the one who had committed his life to me not her. I wish women would get that through their heads, she (the other women) owes u nothing!

    But with that said I would need to have an amicable relationship with the other woman for the sake of my child. I would not have my child around someone I was not amicable with it would be impossible. So I do agree with Mashonda on that point, it is only for the sake of her son.

    He is a cutie, looks just like his mommy thankfully!

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    • Teri September 30, 2009 at 4:54 pm

      Dee, I agree 100%! Also your statement about being amicable to the other woman. Heck yeah. You wanna know who this woman is going to be because she will be in your child’s life. There is so much drama at times when couples break up and it’s even worse when the new person and ex don’t get along.

      Also, I do think it’s easier for some women to blame and be angry at the other woman because it’s easier to take him back. So many women are forgiving (I’m not suggesting that if a man cheats ONCE, it’s over – I do believe in forgiveness), but as we all know, there are chronic cheaters. I’ve seen women out the street fighting over a no good man while he’s standing there watching the debacle. I just SMH at these females because 9 times out of 10, the current spouse is going to take him back and of course he’ll do it again.

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  • Kaia September 30, 2009 at 5:11 pm

    Didn’t Mashonda say that she found out about Swizz and AK from his credit card statements showing hotel charges coinciding with her tour? When AK has millions, would they really be so stupid and put a hotel on his credit card and not hers?? Weird.

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  • scorpio September 30, 2009 at 5:20 pm

    Aww, he so cute. especially in the first pic. But i thought BCK asked everybody 2 not mention anyother names than the names on this post. Oh well, the baby still cute.

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  • Zogie September 30, 2009 at 6:03 pm

    I don’t believe anything ends before something else begins. For the sake of the child we know who should have tried to keep it together.
    I don’t even like how people r trying to swipe the dirty deed under the rug…
    I say Sue the famed singer( cause you can)

    Mom and Baby look happy even without dad in the pic.

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    • Kinereth September 30, 2009 at 6:59 pm

      I agree with you. I always thought that the “famed singer” had no class any way. This just confirms it. Mashonda has every right to vent her anger publicly as her family is being destroyed by this famed singer. What goes around comes around, and the famed singer will one day have plenty of tears of her own to shed…she’ll learn, what a waste!

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  • ley September 30, 2009 at 6:14 pm

    If the situation was 100% right, those clowns would not have been hiding…it’s really not about blaming the other woman. I am only 22 years old, and I have enough understanding and sense to realize that every decision I make directly affects and attributes to the welfare of other people. I don’t go around thinking only of myself!! With that being said, Alicia Keys should have had enough respect for the other woman as she so poignantly pretends. PERIOD! In addition, I find the ones defending Ms. Keys to be the insecure and desperate types who frequent “the other woman” syndrome!

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    • Strong, Secure, Married September 30, 2009 at 7:46 pm

      Are you married? If not. let me school you, when you get married you and your husband make a contract and are accountable to each other for the terms of that agreement. Come hell or high water, barring death and any natural act of God, the two of you are responsible for the ultimate success or failure of your relationship.

      No one else cna be credited for the success of your marriage as should no one else be faulted for its demise.

      She knew who she married.

      Is it wrong to get with a married person. YES!
      But ultimately just like you’re responsible for the success. You, the couple are responsible for the failure.

      You cannot keep a man who does not want to be kept.

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      • UGOGURL!!! October 1, 2009 at 6:00 am

        SAY IT AGAIN!! I don’t think they are hearing this! IF he didn’t want to be with her it would have been someone other than AK! I believe this marriage failed LONG AGO and that little boy was the product of desperation and a quick attempt to repair and trap this man but it didn’t work and he left anyway! Mashonda can vent all she wants..that’s free speech but put your cards on the table and be honest with what you are saying. Tell ppl that you KNEW your marriage was over and you are still in love with this man. Don’t act like AK TOOK him from you…he walked away FREELY and NEVER CAME BACK! Besides that, vows or not! I don’t want a man that has been out cheating with another woman BACK IN MY BED! That’s SELF RESPECT!

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  • dree September 30, 2009 at 6:27 pm

    that boy is too cute, I’m sorry but i don’t believe this whole Swizz and [AK] thing…I just don’t, I smell fakeness

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  • Getoverit September 30, 2009 at 6:32 pm

    I feel sorry for Mashonda……I really do but how can u say your cool with Swizz but you have a problem with AK. Why do you care to even have a relationship with her? She’s just a girlfriend. Will you be as welcoming to all Swizz girlfriends in the future or just AK being that it seems you are obsessed with her? Most women have no desire to have a GIRLFRIEND around their kids. Also wasn’t the divorced filed 2 years ago? I never heard about Swizz and AK until months after the divorce. Besides even if they had waited Mashonda would have still been hurt. AK is a highly successful singer everything Mashonda wants to be. Get over it Mashonda. You can’t make a man be with you. And spreading negativity will not ruin AK career. She has die hard fans that will always buy her music.

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    • Teri September 30, 2009 at 11:16 pm

      Most women have no desire to have a GIRLFRIEND around their kids.
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      Why? Here’s how I see it, if two people break up, they both move on. In my own family, my cousin’s ex’s blend together just fine for the sake of the kids. There is no anomosity whatsoever. Realistically they are probably going to get involved with other people. The man will most like find a gf, and the female will probably find another man. That’s life, so if they have children together, it’s only natural the child will be around the other parent’s current mate. Now I don’t believe a person should be bringing men and women in and out of their children’s life. Dating is fine, but, in my opinion, everyone you date doesn’t need to be in the child’s life because you just don’t always know who you are dealing with. That being said, I would hope that my child would get along with my ex’s current mate and that they would treat my child well. They better or there would be hell to pay! If we’ve broken up, why should either one of us have a problem with each other’s current deal. That is, of course, unless that other person has questionable character. JMO.

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  • Brooklyn September 30, 2009 at 9:19 pm

    I think she’s trying to tarnish ak reputation because her career won’t take off!! First and foremost ak owes her nothing! Her husband does!! U can’t help who u fall in love with. Ur home has to be already broken in order for ur husband to decide to up and leave. If he was happy then nobody would have been able to take him away!!! So of u people that blog need to further ur research and hear the things that he says. Google it or whatever and hear his side!! Stop feeding off of her pity! Trust it’s more to This story. I was reading somewhere where he was saying that they can’t agree to any offers that he put on the table!! Why?!!! Because she doesn’t want to give up on the marriage!!! She’s the one dragging on! It’s obvious he’s moved on she needs to as well!! Now I’m not saying he’s 100% right but he’s not 100% wrong neither!!! I’m just saying it’s always more sides to a story! People just quick to side with her beacuse she keeps puttting it out there! And as long as ak or he doesn’t respond, she’s going to continue on this guilt trip.

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    • The Word of God will always rule.... October 1, 2009 at 12:39 am

      What is wrong with some of you people on this blog?
      Have we all lost our morals and values as well as common sense?
      Marriage is a very sacred thing.
      God said in his holy word that a huband ad wife are one flesh.
      No one is to come between that.
      And yes a person can help who they fall in love with.
      Actually its quite simple…just dont allow yourself to get into a situation where the potential to fall in love is there!
      Doe’snt anyone have self control anymore?
      Ide bet my last dollar that Mashonda’s husband and that other women didnt hook up initially because they were “in love”!
      Yes, Ide be more willing to bet that they were in “sex”!
      A for Mashonda’s open letter…she has every right to put it out there the way that she sees fit.
      Obviously her husband and his mistress didnt give a flying **** about Mashonda’s feelings when they started this adulterous affair!
      Why does they world knock everything that is right but yet uphold and glorify everything that is wrong?
      This is this womans marriage and if she chooses to fight for it then it is her God given right to do so!
      These adulterous homewreckers need to fall back….you reap what you sow…a.k.a. what goes around comes around!
      Watch out Mr Husband and Ms Mistress…may God have mercy on you because you will need it when His wrath takes hold in your life.
      This world is going to hell in a handbasket!
      Lastly, it breaks my heart to see yet another black family unit destroyed…as if we need more of that!

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      • WTF?? October 1, 2009 at 7:15 am

        I think its so easy for ppl to see things one-sided. We don’t know the whole of this story only what is posted for us to read. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion just like you and I believe this was a DISASTER from the beginning. Why does AK owe Mashonda anything? Why does Mashonda get an A for putting her last FAILED attempt on the internet? If my husband left AND filed for divorce I personally would pick up the pieces and KEEP IT MOVING! I wouldn’t want that DIRTY DINGDING back in my house.

        If Swiss if happy with AK I wish them the best of luck. Some times marriages don’t work and the person finds happiness elsewhere.

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      • getagrip (reply to The Word...) October 1, 2009 at 10:54 am

        blah blah blah blah blah….

        who told you God was even in their marriage to start? perhaps Swizzy didn’t find out he was truly married to the wrong one until he ran up on the right one? It happens…life doesn’t always come in nicely wrapped packages, sometimes its a bit messy.

        I think Mashonda needs to fall back and get over it. You can obviously see the love bx AK and Swizz and AK never appeared to be that “type” of chick to me so in my opinion, this must be real for her.

        All the adults just need to be grown up and do what’s best for all the kids involved.

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        • It is what it is! October 1, 2009 at 4:29 pm

          @getagrip….you obviously have no common sense, morals or values.
          Your response was plain stupid as well as dangerous to your soul.
          May God have mercy on people like you.
          P.S…I am very much happily married…32 years :)

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        • bb October 6, 2009 at 7:23 pm

          TO getagrip: YOU ARE A VERY FOOLISH PERSON. Someone mentions GOD’s word and you belittle His word. May GOD hold you accountable for your words. GOD does not have mercy on people like this. GOD isnt stupid. If He does have mercy you will seriously regret your comments in this life but will ultimately make heaven.

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  • Getoverit September 30, 2009 at 9:55 pm

    @ Brooklyn

    You are so right. My mother always said the one that cries the loudest is heard the most. Her timing is impeccable. Although she does not have an album coming out AK does. Could that be the real problem….hmmmmmmmmm! I just don’t understand why she cares about a girlfriend having a relationship with here child!

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  • IrieWhite September 30, 2009 at 11:22 pm

    The worst part is that this innocent little boy is in the middle of all of this. I love ak and kinds dug Mashonda’s one-hit. come on though did she really think ak would respond to that? Classic woman scorned who blames the other woman not her triffling man. She ttried to use that baby to keep him and when that didn’t work she decided to stall out the divorce…maybe she figures if he’s still married to her ak can’t marry him even if they wanted to.

    This is a grounding moment for Mashonda..stop waiting on swiss beats to take u back! He doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you so move on…she’s a pretty girl..shoot she can do bad …(you know the rest) cause doing bad has nothing to do with money

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  • Tanya October 1, 2009 at 7:41 am

    Women like AK are prime examples of why cheating exists. I blame Swizzy and AK. Women need to start being women and holding these men accountable. A man cannot cheat if he doesnt have a willing partner. Women need to start loving themselves and stop being so damn desperate and selfish.

    As a woman, mother, and wife I can empathize with Mashonda. She is clearly still hurting behind this whole mess. Although, I don’t agree with her twittering, I understand. Because when you’re hurting, you’ll talk to anyone that’ll listen.

    Time will heel all wounds and Im sure her and her son will be just fine in due time.

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  • luvqtpies October 1, 2009 at 8:09 am

    He is beautiful! I think he looks like his mom.

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  • Virgie October 1, 2009 at 8:17 am

    I was raised to stay out of other people’s private business (and worry more about your own)! I just came to comment that the kid is cute and then I see all these people commenting on grown up people they don’t even know. It’s no wonder these celebs (Halle Berry) are so belligerent towards the ‘razzi. People seem to be so hungry to be distracted from their own lives that they encourage intrusion. It’s sad.

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  • BrwnSantiLove October 1, 2009 at 10:14 am

    Aww..He looks like his father to me, but in that top pic. He has his mother’s smile.

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  • MoNiQuE October 1, 2009 at 11:19 am

    caaaaayuuute he looks more like her now

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  • Annie October 1, 2009 at 1:16 pm

    I blame AK. She knew that they were married, and even denied that there was an affair going on (presumably, because the existence of an affair was scandalous and immoral). She sings about the strength and beauty of strong black relationships (Unbreakable, A Woman’s Worth), and then assists in the break up of one.

    All relationships have rough patches, and during these times, you hope that others will respect the relationship rather than assist in their demise. AK’s conduct was unacceptable, and as I person who had a considerable amount of respect for AK because of her message and the way (I thought) she carried herself, I am incredibly disappointed. She should be ashamed, and I wish her all the karma that she deserves.

    This is not to say that Swizz is not accountable, but AK was and still is dead wrong.

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  • Annie October 1, 2009 at 1:21 pm

    “Ur home has to be already broken in order for ur husband to decide to up and leave. If he was happy then nobody would have been able to take him away!!!”

    Let’s see if you still singing that tune when you get married. Many people, esp those who are not married, have absolutely no idea what it takes to stay married. You can love someone, deeply, and still act selfishly. You’ll learn.

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  • REALTALK October 1, 2009 at 1:55 pm

    god bless mashonda..no comment on her cheating husband and his jumpoff

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  • KEEYSHA.J October 1, 2009 at 10:15 pm

    CUTE HE LOOK LIKE BOTH OF THEM.

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  • Jazzy P October 21, 2009 at 4:57 pm

    I think Mashonda right at some point..AK should’ve steppd back and let his divorce become final before continuing to see him or go public. STop giving in to these trifling men..lol

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  • lilkunta October 21, 2009 at 5:38 pm

    AK isnt the sole blame for the demise of the marriage. However EVERYONE knew that Swizz was married. He married in 04 & it was public. So when AK started dating him WHILE HE WAS MARRIED, she absolutely was wrong 4 that. This is the lady who wrote the songs about love loss :’ how come u dont call me’ ‘karma’& many more. THis is the lady who wrote the song ‘superwoman’. So how could she in good conscientous date a married man?

    Swizz may have told her he was getting a divorce, but until legal separation papers were filed or divorce was filed, AK was wrong. She is a cheater, she is an adulter!

    Swizz to is to blame as if he knew he was done w the marriage, why was he still living w Mashonda?

    Then, when Siwzz & Mashonda were in marital counseling, AK was still sating Swizz! She went on vacation to St Tropez w him! This is why AK’s actions has angered me.

    Lastly, M posted this tweet in response to AK’s tweets. AK tweeted things like “i dont pretend to know what love is for others” as well as “move on” & other things to M. M repeatedly tried calling AK & talking 1 on 1 since AK will be around her son KJ, but AK said no. That is y M went on twitter.

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  • tracy colemen June 20, 2010 at 12:05 pm

    if women would say no to married men and married men would hold down the responsibility as husband and do not jump into anything until the situation is final both him and his lover is wrong the wife should be upset there is no right in wrong yes the wife should move on but i would be pissed with both of them

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  • Funneegerl July 6, 2010 at 11:28 pm

    It’s so funny that when cheating gets ‘celebefied’ it’s becomes ok. Separated is still married. 5 months back and before….add it up. Hope it all works out.

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